The Power of "Yet": Carol Dweck's Growth Mindset Approach

Discover the life-changing power of adding one small word to your vocabulary: 'yet.' Learn how Carol Dweck's revolutionary research on mindset can transform your approach to challenges and unleash your hidden potential for growth.

Pam Hobbs

5/8/20242 min read

Carol Dweck's powerful TED Talk introduces us to the transformative concept of the "growth mindset" and the simple but profound power of the word "yet." Through her research and real-world examples, Dweck demonstrates how our mindset toward challenges and failures can dramatically impact our success and resilience. Here's a summary of her key points along with actionable steps to implement this approach in your own life.

Key Insights from Dweck's Talk

Dweck begins with the story of a Chicago high school that used "not yet" instead of "fail" on report cards. This simple linguistic shift placed students on a learning curve rather than at a dead end. This concept of "not yet" versus "now" forms the foundation of what Dweck calls the growth mindset versus the fixed mindset.

The Two Mindsets:

  1. Growth Mindset: People who believe their abilities can develop through dedication and hard work. They embrace challenges, persist through obstacles, learn from criticism, and find inspiration in others' success.

  2. Fixed Mindset: People who believe their basic qualities like intelligence are fixed traits. They avoid challenges, give up easily, ignore useful feedback, and feel threatened by others' success.

Dweck's research shows that these mindsets lead to dramatically different behaviors:

  • Fixed mindset students tend to cheat after failure rather than study more, compare themselves to worse performers to feel better, and avoid difficulty.

  • Growth mindset students process errors deeply, learn from them, and correct them.

Real-World Impact

Dweck shares compelling examples of the growth mindset in action:

  • A teacher taking Harlem kindergarteners to the 95th percentile on national achievement tests

  • A South Bronx class reaching the top of New York State on math tests

  • Native American students outperforming "Microsoft kids" after adopting growth mindset principles

Actionable Steps to Develop a Growth Mindset

1. Change Your Relationship with Failure

  • Replace "I failed" with "I haven't succeeded yet"

  • View setbacks as temporary and informative rather than permanent and defining

  • Ask "What can I learn from this?" after every difficulty

2. Praise Process, Not Traits

  • For yourself: Acknowledge your effort, strategies, and progress rather than innate talents

  • For others (especially children): Praise hard work, perseverance, and improvement rather than intelligence or natural ability

  • Use phrases like "I notice how hard you worked on that" instead of "You're so smart"

3. Embrace Challenges

  • Deliberately seek out difficult tasks that push you outside your comfort zone

  • Remind yourself that struggle means you're growing, not failing

  • Set learning goals ("I want to master this concept") rather than performance goals ("I want to get an A")

4. Develop New Learning Strategies

  • When facing difficulty, try different approaches rather than giving up

  • Ask for help and input from others

  • Break complex challenges into smaller, manageable steps

5. Create Growth-Oriented Environments

  • Use language that emphasizes growth: "not yet," "in progress," "developing"

  • Celebrate improvement and effort, not just achievement

  • Share stories of persistence and growth with others (especially children)

6. Train Your Brain

  • Remember that neuroscience shows our brains form new connections when we learn

  • Visualize your brain getting stronger each time you push through difficulty

  • Think of challenges as opportunities to develop new neural pathways

Conclusion

As Dweck powerfully concludes, "The more we know that basic human abilities can be grown, the more it becomes a basic human right for kids—all kids, all adults—to live in environments that create that growth."

By implementing these actionable steps, you can transform your approach to challenges, foster greater resilience, and create an environment where growth thrives. The simple shift from "I can't" to "I can't yet" opens up possibilities for continuous improvement and lifelong learning.

Remember: The journey to mastery is always in progress. You're not failing—you're just not there yet.